Doing good ..might do you bad

We all know how giving can be rewarding , no matter what type of giving you do . You can help others in so many ways and it will feel great . That’s why Opera did her car giving thing and it was wonderful , it even reflected on us viewers ,however there is a downside for“giving”.

When you are used to give too much for one particular person “lover ,relative or a friend” it can drain your energy .You go over your self and sacrifice for this person no matter what the sacrifice is” time , money or even daily tasks. This will drain your giving energy , for you have nothing left to give to other people .You’ll have a narrow acceptance for others . cause you’re forced your self to become that perfect creature for that special one , smiling and keeping your self in perfect image for him/ her no matter how bad they treated you , you keep trying to keep them in a good mood , walking around them on egg shells trying to not do any mistake , but you know what , you’ll never satisfy them at all , you’ll keep making mistakes and eating your self alive for them blaming your own self and this all can turn your life into hell , so while you are smiling to this person over your wounds , you’ll scratch others in the eyes and block them out of your life , unwillingly.

if you are in this kind of relationship , do your self a favor and get out as fast as you can , I’m not saying dump your friend , just help when you can , but if you can’t , it is OK to say no.